Mapenzi....... L.O.V.E

 "What's the most remarkable aspect of being married?" This is a question that can elicit both profound contemplation and effortless response. Picture a scenario where you wake up every morning beside someone who feels entirely at ease being their authentic self around you, who greets you with kisses without the slightest concern about whether you've brushed your teeth or not. This is a person who consistently showers you with compliments, or, equally, isn't hesitant to offer constructive criticism about your appearance, making you feel incomplete when such observations are absent. They're the one who frets over your well-being and grows anxious and concerned when you fail to answer your phone. Throughout the day, they remain engaged, demonstrating genuine interest in your daily activities and offering unwavering support every step of the way.

When exhaustion and weariness set in, they become your reliable pillar of strength, extending their comforting shoulder for you to lean on. While massages may not be an everyday luxury, I can assure you that they will come precisely when you need them most. Their hugs grow tighter with each passing cloud in your life. Day in and day out, you are guaranteed their steadfast support in every facet of your existence, free from any hint of jealousy. They will propel you to reach levels of potential you never knew you possessed, gently steering you back on course if you happen to stray. In short, they consistently radiate pride in you; your triumphs become their triumphs.

As you journey through the cycles of life, they stand by your side, ready to love and protect, sometimes exhibiting an endearing level of overprotectiveness that stems from a deep well of love. They adopt your dislikes and adorations as their own, often without needing to understand the origins of these sentiments. This is one of the most delightful aspects of marriage. They stay with you in bed, listening to your narratives and experiences from the day, offering emotional refuge as you disclose your innermost secrets, vulnerabilities, and struggles. Simultaneously, they walk with you, encouraging you to confront your deepest fears head-on.

They laugh heartily at your jokes, regardless of their humor quotient. Their face consistently lights up upon seeing you, and even during rough patches or disagreements, they find it difficult not to share a humorous anecdote or a cherished memory with you because, in your eyes, they discover a unique connection. Once conflicts are resolved, they're the first to share and reminisce about the amusing aspects of the disagreement, extending their repertoire of shared inside jokes.

The list of the joys of marriage is boundless, but if you were to ask me, the pinnacle of being married is being married to you, Jaherana. I love you."